{"id":3082,"date":"2013-10-23T00:25:32","date_gmt":"2013-10-23T04:25:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/?p=3082"},"modified":"2013-10-23T00:30:30","modified_gmt":"2013-10-23T04:30:30","slug":"life-stories-48-patty-chang-anker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/2013\/10\/23\/life-stories-48-patty-chang-anker\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Stories #48: Patty Chang Anker"},"content":{"rendered":"<h5><a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/life-stories\/id650168716\" target=\"_blank\">Subscribe to <i>Life Stories<\/i> in iTunes<\/a><\/h5>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beatrice.com\/life-stories\/LifeStoriesPattyChangAnker.mp3\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/LS-Patty-Chang-Anker.jpg\" alt=\"Life Stories: Patty Chang Anker\" title=\"Life Stories: Patty Chang Anker\" width=\"532\" height=\"353\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3083\" srcset=\"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/LS-Patty-Chang-Anker.jpg 532w, http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/LS-Patty-Chang-Anker-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 532px) 100vw, 532px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<font size=\"1\">photo: Alison Sheehy<\/font><\/p>\n<p>In this episode of <i>Life Stories<\/i>, I reunited with an old friend, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pattychanganker.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Patty Chang Anker<\/a>, to talk about her memoir, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.powells.com\/partner\/29017\/biblio\/9781594486050\" target=\"_blank\"><i>Some Nerve<\/i><\/a>, in which she recounts her effort to face some of her most basic fears&#8212;and to reach out to other people who are confronting fears of their own. It didn&#8217;t get off to such a great start&#8212;confronting her terror of swimming in the open water, she got slammed by an ocean wave and broke a foot&#8212;but eventually she found herself surfing on Lake Michigan in the winter and getting in a car with a woman who hadn&#8217;t driven in 20 years since she got into an accident her second time behind the wheel.<\/p>\n<p>As I mentioned, Patty&#8217;s an old friend, who I met back when she was a book publicist, and so we talked a bit about how, after years of helping other writers face the media and the public, she&#8217;s on the other side of the fence now:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;It takes a lot of courage to go out there and feel like you have a story that is worth people&#8217;s time, that you feel like you want to take up their valuable time and share a piece of yourself with them, come what may&#8212;whether they like it or not. I think most of us don&#8217;t want to feel criticized; we want to be embraced and accepted, and when you put yourself out there, you never know exactly what&#8217;s going to happen. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have always felt passionate about the importance of storytelling, and the importance of connecting with people and sharing ideas. I just feel like we&#8217;re put on this earth to connect with each other. Writing is one way of doing it, and speaking is a way of doing it. I just feel like there&#8217;s so much competition now for people&#8217;s attention that you can&#8217;t just rely on your written words alone to reach people. If you have an opportunity to do a radio show, or to stand up and talk to people in your workplace or your church or a bookstore, you should take it, because otherwise you&#8217;re choosing to be smaller with your message rather than reaching people.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Listen to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beatrice.com\/life-stories\/LifeStoriesPattyChangAnker.mp3\" target=\"_blank\"><i>Life Stories<\/i> #48: Patty Chang Anker<\/a> (MP3 file); or download this file directly by right-clicking (Mac users, option-click). You can also <a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/life-stories\/id650168716\" target=\"_blank\">subscribe to <i>Life Stories<\/i> in iTunes<\/a>, where you can catch up with earlier episodes and be alerted whenever a new one is released. (And if you are an iTunes subscriber, please consider rating and reviewing the podcast!)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Patty Chang Anker created the blog Facing Forty Upside Down to chronicle her efforts to overcome some  of the fears she&#8217;d had since childhood&#8211;fear of swimming in open water, of riding a bike, and so on. But the project soon grew into an outreach with other people who were confronting fears of their own, and a powerful education in how to reject the critical internal voices that keep us from enjoying life to the fullest. She joins me to talk about what she&#8217;s learned&#8211;and how her previous career as a book publicist prepared her for becoming a published author.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[272],"tags":[660,132,658,661,305,659],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3082"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3082"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3082\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3086,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3082\/revisions\/3086"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}