{"id":2657,"date":"2013-03-10T15:05:13","date_gmt":"2013-03-10T19:05:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/?p=2657"},"modified":"2014-01-26T19:44:04","modified_gmt":"2014-01-26T23:44:04","slug":"life-stories-26-ashok-rajamani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/2013\/03\/10\/life-stories-26-ashok-rajamani\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Stories #26: Ashok Rajamani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beatrice.com\/life-stories\/LifeStoriesAshokRajamani.mp3\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/LS-Ashok-Rajamani.jpg\" alt=\"Life Stories: Ashok Rajamani\" title=\"Life Stories: Ashok Rajamani\" width=\"532\" height=\"353\"  \/><\/a><br \/>\n<font size=\"1\">photo via AshokRajamani.com<\/font><\/p>\n<p>In this episode of <i>Life Stories<\/i>, the podcast series of interviews with memoir writers about their lives and the art of writing memoir, I talk with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ashokrajamani.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Ashok Rajamani<\/a> about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.powells.com\/partner\/29017\/biblio\/9781565129979\" target=\"_blank\"><i>The Day My Brain Exploded<\/i><\/a>, his account of recovering from an AVM, or arteriovenous malformation&#8212;a cluster of veins and arteries that formed in his brain in the womb that burst one afternoon in the spring of 2000. Among other topics, we discuss just <i>why<\/i> the AVM burst when it did, Ashok&#8217;s father&#8217;s curious reaction to his hospitalization, the callousness of the doctor who performed the surgery that saved his life, and the full extent of his injuries&#8212;including what it&#8217;s like to have to rediscover your sexual orientation.<\/p>\n<p>We also talk about Ashok&#8217;s decision to tell his story in order to raise awareness about the range of traumatic brain injuries&#8212;including cases like his where the extent of his condition is not immediately apparent&#8212;and how, although he&#8217;s only met one other person in &#8220;real life&#8221; who was also recovering from an AVM, he&#8217;s gotten in touch with many others, along with other brain injury victims, through the Internet. He&#8217;s also compiled <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ashokrajamani.com\/newsletter.htm\" target=\"_blank\">a list of brain injury resources<\/a> which he hosts on his website.<\/p>\n<p>If you enjoyed the previous <i>Life Stories<\/i> episode with <a href=\"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/2012\/11\/26\/life-stories-17-susannah-cahalan\/\">Susannah Cahalan<\/a> about the autoimmune disorder that affected her brain, you&#8217;ll want to give this episode a listen&#8212;and if you haven&#8217;t heard that episode yet, then you should listen to it after you hear Ashok&#8217;s story.<\/p>\n<p>Listen to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beatrice.com\/life-stories\/LifeStoriesAshokRajamani.mp3\" target=\"_blank\"><i>Life Stories<\/i> #26: Ashok Rajamani<\/a> (MP3 file); or download the file by right-clicking (Mac users, option-click).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ashok Rajamani&#8217;s The Day My Brain Exploded is a memoir that does what it says on the cover &#8212; in it, he talks about the arteriovenous malformation in his brain&#8217;s blood pathways that burst one day, and how it&#8217;s irrevocably changed his life, from cutting his vision in half to disrupting his short-term memory. And how do you write a memoir when you&#8217;re dealing with all of that?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[272],"tags":[552,132,305,553],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2657"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2657"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2657\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3297,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2657\/revisions\/3297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2657"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2657"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beatrice.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2657"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}